The top menu is located above the upper left corner of the site header. Before log-in it displays two buttons: Log In or Sign Up. After log-in it displays 4 or 5 buttons:

Hi YOUR-USERNAME

Profile

Mail (#-OF-UNREAD-MESSAGES) 

More This releases a drop-down menu that allows you to view/manage your Friends, Communities, Account, Photos, Videos, Blog and Links. You can also Sign out or select Help to sends us an email.

|| you have # friend requests! This only appears if you have pending friend requests. This takes you to your Pending Requests page where you can manage friends and invite others to join Limachips. Do that! Hint. Hint.